SLC-S24/W2 - Powerful Debate | Love vs Capability

Hello friends I hope you are great I am good today I am taking part in very interesting challenge that is SLC-S24/W2 - Powerful Debate | Love vs Capability, I knew it's going to just superb.

Create the debate of your thoughts showing the weight of two worlds, the split of mother's mind. Should mothers be judged for pursuing their careers or dreams?

The mother personality is so broad perhaps we couldn't put in words, she is like dense tree 🌴 in desert and feeling of cold water in desert thirst, the role of mother is not only brought up children and their family but to lead a generation she is perhaps leading model of her home.

Moving for work with my little

When a woman becomes mother definitely her first priority is the kids she wanted to brought up them in a best way and when comes the reality of dream she forgetting it all because mother could leave and bear anything but couldn't suffer their children.

Despite of this reality if she is strong enough even you could fulfill her dreams too by keeping all things balance. Being moms don't mean they can't fulfill their dream or careers it's difficult but not impossiblebecause mom can do anything.

Because if a see myself I am working lady it was my dream to see successful career and now I am mom too it doesn't mean I couldn't move all things balanced it's up to mom because we have strong stamina to do anything which we wanted.

The management is dependent on mom, well when my princess was very little I take her with me as those days my husband were not at home I knew it was not so easy but how I can ignore my little ones for career I managed it with all hurdles and I have seen many successful women which had brought up their children very well along with bright career and running home too.

Is a mother who focuses on her work life and neglects the responsibility of her children, can she still be called a "perfect mom"? "They said a good mother never puts herself first but she wondered who would tell her daughter that her dreams mattered too?"

Well!!!! Such cases are rare and I don't say these are not existing but such situations happening only when she failed to do management because both husband and wife participation is required to keep things balanced.

Duty time

Like we are both working outside but we have set out timings my duty is in morning and it can not shifts to other hours my husband knew he has to do managed because he has less restrictions.

He did evening and night duty and we can easily managed home and kids along with our dream and career. The truth is not how I can say the mother is not good as she couldn't manage children and home while moving for work.

She is earning for the betterment of her family and kids and yeah alone she is nothing she needs support of husband then she is best mommy best wife and best worker too, these things are connected only then then me can brought up my children very well.

Yeah the day I realized I couldn't keep the things managed then what would be useful of career of my family is suffering that's why as I mentioned it can be only with the help if both partners so that child can grow well and get the love of both parents too.

You know mommy are always perfect it's either me or my mom she did best for us and I am doing best for my little princess.

What defines a good mother? A mother who commits all her life to her children, raising them, or a mother who works day and night to build a better future for her children while holding on to her dreams?

A mother which do unconditionally love selflessness and ready to sacrifice for her kids wanted to do best for them who never thought about herself, one who gave them shadow while keeping under the sun, no one is like you mom your infinite love without any rewards you never demanded anything in return.

"Ammi no one is like you"

I see all universe no one is like you you are greatest gift of Allah almighty you understand me before I spoke you feel my pain without telling Ammi no one can be like you.

Well as I mentioned above mother is one who takes care of their children nurture them in good environments and sacrifices for them whenever required but it doesn't mean she couldn't move for job.

It's the management and the responsibility of both parents which is most of the time denied in our society that's why boys didn't care about their father because father only busy in earning and didn't give time to their children.

If I see the contribution of my dad it was equally with my mom for given us good futures along with brought up. Similarly my husband is with me and we help each other not only for growing and nurture our kids but given them bright future through hardworking.

It's all about my today post.

I would like to invite my friends @m-fdo, @goodybest and @sualeha to take part in the challenge.

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