"SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments".

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Greetings teachers and students!

Am glad to take part in this interesting life big question, so therefore i will love to discuss on topic 1.

Marital relationship is a union which two mature minds work together giving equal effort to build a strong and lasting friendship.

Reveal the simple thinking of your mind and show us that in any quarrel or problem that arises between a couple, the first thing that men do is always admit their mistakes and apologize to their wives in order to keep their relationship intact. Is this right or should the one who is at greater fault in the quarrel first admit his mistakes and apologize to his partner and try to fix the relationship?

Relationship requires alot of sacrifice from both parties sometimes when misunderstanding arises the two spouses might feel they were right after all so the see no need to apologize first therefore resulting to malice which may likely create rooms for serious disaster,
Couple should be able to sort issues out peacefully without having to point fingers on whose fault it was with the magic word am sorry, being truly sorry can heal a broken heart.

Personal experience

In my first few years of marriage everything was going smoothly we got to know about each other more i had a great relationship we have sailed through so many challenges as a couple our marriage wasn't bed of roses but is one of the best thing that have happened in my life,

The arrival of our daughter added more joy to our life but then things change, i became more of a mother than a wife i invested all my time into taking care of our daughter that i neglected some of my husband needs it was a challenging time.
Taking care of a newborn is tasking especially without additional help i was so stressed balancing house chores and caring for our baby,

I felt my husband was not doing enough for us helping only when he comes back from work was not enough and this often made us not to appreciate each others efforts they way we should this almost caused us our precious relationship,

We both quickly notice that things are not going well and decided to talk about it, we talked about our differences which helped us see our flaws we both took full responsibility for our actions and approach peace which helped revive our bond.

Lesson learnt

We both didn't point at whose fault it was but rather we reason together and correct our wrong marital relationship needs collective effort to sail it doesn't matter whose fault was greater.

Where many people think that in a fight, the husband should be the first to say sorry and their wives should be the first to resolve the conflict and mend the relationship. Do you agree with this view or do you think it is different in your case? Express your own feelings.

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Since marital relationship has to do with two mature people i think it will be unfair to leave the responsibility of settling conflicts to one gender due to some petty talk because both gender has feelings i think it will be best if both of them take accountability of their actions and quickly approach peace the other person should also be ready to accept reconciliation when his or her partner makes a peaceful movement.

However, in this case, would it be wise for both the husband and wife to admit their mistakes and apologize to each other in order to preserve their relationship, or would it be wiser to continue to maintain their egos and continue to cause unrest in the family day after day? Which do you think is right?

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Accepting mistakes and making out time to discuss and address issues have saved alot of marriage from disaster, i find this word soothing to the hear (am sorry i was) couples should not have anything to do with ego because this can destroy a once beautiful marriage.

Before i conclude i will love to invite @dequeen @bevicsam @chant to participate in this interesting contest.