What to do to make life a joy

Assalamualaikum steemit Friends How are you all? I hope everyone is well in the mercy of Allah Ta'ala. My name is Maimuna my home in sirajgonj..

In order to be good as a human being, we need to follow some things regularly, avoid some things, and some things need to be strict.
You have to give up expectations at the beginning. After expecting others to expect, if that expectation is not fulfilled, you will be very disappointed. This expectation inside will cause your turmoil. Be it parents, friends, lover or lover, you have to reduce the level of expectations at the beginning. Hope is positive, but hope cannot be taken to the level of expectations.

Be rigid without saying 'no'. You cannot say yes against your own will. This 'no' is able to protect you from the inside of the inside. Remember, there is no greater turmoil than the inner turmoil Remember, you will protect you as you say 'no' to you, just as you will protect another.

Avoid condemnation all the time. Give the price of time. Never hear your important time and never listen to the condemnation of another. At the end of the day, the person who condemns others in front of you, at the beginning of the day, there is no guarantee that he will not condemn you in front of others. And yes, learn to believe. Faith will calm you. People on earth are the only faith and hope, not expecting. Love yourself, look at others in love, feel with your heart. There is nothing more peace.

So far as today I am finishing the writing so that everyone will be fine. Allah Hafez will be healthy