You see messages on your phone telling you to send money for upkeep from family members. You receive calls on house rent and bills upon bills. You have a family you're taking care of. School fees, feeding, etc., but yet, you can't turn away from family calls when they come up. You regret being an adult or a man with responsibilities that want to kill.
You're struggling to be buoyant, but pressure from friends and family makes you go mad. If you're a single or married man, you must have thought of all these or felt the same way. You just feel you can be left alone – no pressure, no billings, no calls, no messages.
You just want that peace of mind, but how possible can that be when you have lots of responsibilities? The Nigerian artiste Fireboy DML expresses in song that he sometimes wishes he could have peace of mind, free from troubles, billings, stress and pressure from family and friends, and problems upon problems that make him feel mad or tired at times.
This prompted him to name his song Airplane Mode. When your phone is on Airplane Mode, calls can't enter, your data connection is lost and you can't receive messages. People put their phones on Airplane Mode to avoid disturbance. probably in a meeting, social gathering or times you just feel you should be left alone to reason through life.
I've personally done that to have my peace of mind. I usually do that whenever I want to watch a movie. I'm not even married, but the pressure on me from friends and family is more than a single or married person who's not under the roof of their parents. Today you'll see a message saying you should lend someone money that he's dying.
Another day, you'll receive a call from your siblings asking for funds. Yet another day you'll spend on data, spend on foodstuffs and receive messages on house rents or loans. Have you ever borrowed a huge amount of money to do business, and then you lost the money? This money is to be paid back in a few weeks, and you don't even know where to start. Your network is frustrating and not allowing you to open certain things; calls keep entering your phone to disturb your network, and bills from family drop.
There's that tendency of running mad if care isn't taken. Already, you're under so much pressure to pay back a certain amount of money, you're called by family members to help with funds for feeding, you're called by close friends to lend a helping hand, and your network is frustrating. You have no other choice than to put your phone in Airplane Mode and probably go to bed to avoid those disturbances.
Airplane Mode by Fireboy DML |
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The song is an emotional song and tells a lot about what men are passing through. The artiste expressed how the responsibilities he shoulder tends to make him run mad sometimes. Let's follow the lyrics bit by bit as I also expressed these same emotions in song but I'm coming to my part. Before going into what each line mean, let's check these specifications to know the year of release and title.
Song Title | Airplane Mode |
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Year of release | 2020 |
Year of trend | 2021 |
Artiste | Fireboy DML |
This is the lyrics:
Yeah yeah ou
So many things wey dey bother man stress from friends and family and brotherman
Man living like an animal
When a problem goes
Life comes with another one
But I'm a god, I'm a stronger man
I be different breed, my kind no be normal one
I'm not trynna be the number one
So many legends dey
I'm just trynna be another one
But sometimes
E dey be like say I wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
E dey be like say I don tire
Sometimes
E dey be like say I wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
I just wanna be alone
I don't wanna see no message on my phone
Nothing dey do me you should know
I just feel like I should do this on my own
I just wanna be alone
If no be love, na money palava
If no be stress, na woman and drama
Competition people dey para
Too much beef when I no be mallam
Na God dey do am, no be my power
Grace na koko, the talent na jara
So I lock myself inside my yara go down on my knees, and I call on baba
But sometimes
E dey be like say I wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
E dey be like say I don tire
Sometimes
E dey be like say wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
I just wanna be alone
I don't wanna see no message on my phone
Nothing dey do me, you should know
I just feel like I should do this on my own
I just wanna be alone
I don't wanna see no message on my phone
Nothing dey do me, you should know
I just feel like I should do this on my own, I just wanna be alone
(Sometimes uh yeah yeah)
Let's interpret the lyrics line by line, as there's a mixture of pidgin English and pure English. This song can be streamed on a lot of audio-playing applications. This song was a hit jam in Nigeria in the year. Each line in these lyrics expresses a lot of thoughts and emotions that can be considered carefully. This happens to almost everyone, even though most may feel it's not about going directly into the blue or Airplane Mode which is automatically shut down, but also by doing certain things that keep disturbance far away.
Reading meaning into the lyrics |
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Yeah yeah ou
So many things wey dey bother man stress from friends and family and brotherman.
As a single man that's no longer under the roof of your family. You're the one providing for your family now and yourself. A lot of things would definitely bother you, especially if you're one that's not financially buoyant. Just imagine you have a relative in an emergency situation or in the hospital; that emergency is also your emergency unexpectedly. There are many things that bother men, most of which are pressure from family and friends in terms of finances and otherwise.
Man living like an animal
When a problem goes
Life comes with another one.
They live like an animal trying to shoulder responsibilities. You can barely have time for yourself, your health, or your looks because you're working hard to bring food to the table and also get less stress from whatever ends there may be. You're pressured to marry, to make money and to help out with expenses, etc.....
This is the reason why he said man lives like an animal, especially the ones struggling financially to fulfil their roles in the family. Life is no respecter of problems. It brings uncertainties that would likely make you run mad. When you feel you've solved your major problems, life brings in a test of faith.
But I'm a god, I'm a stronger man
I be different breed, my kind no be normal one. I'm not trynna be the number one
So many legends dey
I'm just trynna be another one
He then explains that he's a stronger man even with those pressures and stresses. He feels he can overcome every circumstance on his own, as he's not trying to be like anyone but tries to be the best of himself when it comes to matters like this.
But sometimes
E dey be like say I wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
E dey be like say I don tire
Sometimes
E dey be like say I wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
He then adds that sometimes he feels he should just run mad because of the pressure and problems faced as a young man. Have you actually felt that way, that you're loosening the knots in your head?
I just wanna be alone
I don't wanna see no message on my phone
Nothing dey do me you should know
I just feel like I should do this on my own
I just wanna be alone
He wants to be all alone, just by himself. It's not as if he's being depressed, but he finds joy and peace of mind without those stress, pressure and disturbances. He just wants to be alone without problems, without calls, a free man with not much responsibility to shoulder, and no family to take care of. He sometimes wishes this happens.
If no be love, na money palava
If no be stress, na woman and drama
Competition people dey para
Too much beef when I no be mallam
If it's not financial problems, it's love , marriage and the like. If it's not stress, problems and the like, it's women and their problems. Some women demand a lot, especially in a relationship. Most women make their men feel they should just run mental because of excessive bills and the likes. Most women love to be maintained, and you know what it means. People compete, trying to be the best, and sometimes have a grudge against him. These aren't his problems because what he's thinking is far beyond these.
Na God dey do am, no be my power
Grace na koko, the talent na jara
So I lock myself inside my yara go down on my knees, and I call on baba
He also states that it's God that's giving him the strength to cope and endure his trials and face his responsibilities squarely. He does reach out to God in prayer and finds it graceful when he pours out his feelings.
_This is the chorus which I explained earlier.
But sometimes
E dey be like say I wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
E dey be like say I don tire
Sometimes
E dey be like say wan manya
All the pressure and the wahala
I just wanna be alone
I don't wanna see no message on my phone
Nothing dey do me, you should know
I just feel like I should do this on my own
I just wanna be alone
I don't wanna see no message on my phone
Nothing dey do me, you should know
I just feel like I should do this on my own, I just wanna be alone
(Sometimes uh yeah yeah)
I just want to be alone , he concluded. That's when airplane mode comes in. If someone is in airplane mode, it definitely means he's in a state of no disturbance, no calls, no pressure, etc. I've been in these shoes before.
Sometimes I feel I should just be alone, lock myself in and dwell on my problems instead of adding problems to problems. On a daily basis, I receive calls from friends begging that their lives are at stake and they need my help. Family is here, school is here, and debts too. Sometimes I just feel all these problems can just go let me be on my own and face my problems squarely.
I didn't sing this song; I only danced to the song. In my music video, I expressed the exact emotions the song is trying to express in my moves and facial expressions. The signal of being alone reflects back to when I'm all by myself trying to look at a beautiful picture. I made these videos in clips so I can combine them together and then make something memorable.
The videographer tried a lot for me even with all the suspense and waste of time. I used my vintage sneakers to dance to this song. What do you say about the song? Have you ever felt that urge to be alone, put your phone on airplane mode to divert calls and take yourself offline from WhatsApp messages just to clear your head?
I've felt the same way too; that's why this song serves as a backup to all men – that even wealthy people have problems and face pressures. Everything would be definitely okay. A time would come when you'll just be smiling; you'll not have to think of your trying to fulfil a particular responsibility when you can't even fulfil yours.
Editing app | Inshot |
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Photography | Redmi Note 13 pro |
Videography | Redmi Note 13 pro |
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Fireboy is indeed a lyrics himself, his song is always movable and high-spirited. I love your slow and easy movement, dancing to the lyrics of the song. It seems you're really going through hard times, we all are going through hard times, that's difficult to deal with, and this song is well recommended for us. I would like to do a video collabo with you, let's just pick a song and hit it hard.
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For my rating,I give it a 100%. There are times that these pressure comes in a volume that you can't understand your next move. Honestly, airplane mode is necessary for avoidance of madness.
Someone made a statement that when your gender is male, life has lead 1 point against you. I didn't understand at first but understood it recently when I saw life and life saw me😂. Praying for avoidance is meaningless but hoping for the strength to push on is the goal. Nice work of art from the video and pictures👍
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