"SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments".

Hello, friends welcome to my post in which I have discussed "Powerful Debate -Love vs Arguments" as part of my participation in this 👉Steemit Challenge S24W1 | organized by @tammanna

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●Reveal the simple thinking of your mind and show us that in any quarrel or problem that arises between a couple, the first thing that men do is always admit their mistakes and apologize to their wives to keep their relationship intact. Is this right, or should the one who is at greater fault in the quarrel first admit his mistakes, apologize to his partner, and try to fix the relationship?

I think this depends on how a man loves, cares, and cherishes his wife, which would prompt him to be the first to apologize, admitting the mistake even when he is not at fault. Men generally don't like having problems with women because men always feel that hurting women is wrong and they can be rejected.

Going by the question, I think the idea that men should be the first to apologize regardless of who is at fault is an idea that is rooted in cultural expectations or social norms, not emotional maturity or fairness. So men who I am also in the category are the first to apologize for peace to rein, which doesn't mean it is the right approach all the time, but it is always done by men who cherish their partner so much.

I think the right thing should be that whoever has realized his or her mistake should be the first to acknowledge it and apologize. This is because no relationship thrives out of pride, but honesty and mutual respect are how every healthy relationship thrives. As a man, if I am wrong and I see it, I will absolutely apologize, but if my partner is more at fault, then she should take the step and apologize because my apologizing all the time, will make her take advantage of me by manipulating me in one way or the other and secondly I will lose my respect as a man.

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●Where many people think that in a fight, the husband should be the first to say sorry and their wives should be the first to resolve the conflict and mend the relationship. Do you agree with this view or do you think it is different in your case? Express your own feelings.

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What I would first say is that we shouldn't take a relationship as a competition, and apologizing shouldn't be viewed as a sign of weakness from whoever first apologizes. Going by the question, I think the idea that the husband should always apologize or that the wife should take charge of mending the bond puts unhealthy pressure on one side. Between husband and wife, whoever values peace and understands the situation better at the moment can be the first to take the step of reconciliation without waiting for the other to make a move. This shows strength and not submission. This is because true love means choosing the relationship over the ego (pride).

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●However, in this case, would it be wise for both the husband and wife to admit their mistakes and apologize to each other to preserve their relationship or would it be wiser to continue to maintain their egos and continue to cause unrest in the family day after day? Which do you think is right?

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It is wiser for both husband and wife to admit their mistake and apologize for the following reasons: it prevents resentment from growing between partners, it creates emotional safety and it shows maturity and mutual respect.

In a relationship, to go ruins many more relationships than mistakes do. This is because ego builds walls, but mistakes can be forgiven. My simple answer is YES because if both partners are willing to humbly reflect, admit their fault, and forgive, their relationship will become stronger than it was. In a relationship, holding on to ego might only win the argument, but it can lose the relationship because no one likes someone who is too proud of himself or herself.

I am inviting; @dove11, @lhorgic and @ruthjoe