Hello everyone! Today I am here to participate in the Steemit Challenge by the @vishwara. It is about the love and capability. If you want to join then:
What defines a good mother? A mother who commits all her life to her children, raising them, or a mother who works day and night to build a better future for her children while holding on to her dreams?
In the society there are different theories, sayings, perspectives and views about the things. Similarly when we come to define the mother love or come forward to define a good mother then different opinions and views arises in the society.
A good mother is not defined by a checklist such as homemade meals, spotless homes or any PTA meetings. A good mother is also not judged by the jobs, promotions or earnings.
She is defined by something far deeper which is more quiet and more sacred. She is truly defined by the way she loves her family. A good mother is defined by how she loves her children such as intentionally, without any greed, difference and even when no one sees her.
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She does not fit into a mold. Some mothers stay at home and some mothers go for the work. Some mothers who do both the things simultaneously also exists. Some mothers just raise their children. There are some mothers who are rich in time but they are not rich in money. On the other hand there are some mothers who have money but no rest in their lives. But still they all carry the same weight such as the well-being of a soul not their own.
A good mother is the heartbeat of the home. It does not matter whether the home is a rented flat or a hospital room. She is the one who reads emotions before the words. She senses the lies in the silence of her children. She hears the pain in the slam of the door.
A good mother may not always be gentle but she always thinks good for their children and family and if she needs some strict actions for the betterment of her children and family then she does not hesitate and take those actions. It may happen that the mother does not feel present everywhere but her reasons echo in each sacrifice which she makes.
A good mother doubts on herself on a daily basis to see if she is fulfilling all her duties as a good mother or if she is lacking behind. Sometimes it happens that she fails but still she forgives herself her own mistakes before anyone else notices. She works all the time with little sleep, little praise and with unlimited hope. A good mother always stays positive and with courage and she builds her family.
Some mothers are the stay at home warriors. They give up their careers and ambitions. They give up their personal time to ensure their children feel safe and loved. These mothers run homes just like a quiet CEOs. She manages the emotions, the calendars and the learning curves. She also managed many invisible things which are not noticed by others.
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There is another type of the mothers who wake up before the sun rise. These mothers also study by night and manage their meetings and meals. These carry out the guilt and grit side by side. They do not work for their personal gain. But they work for the hope that her sacrifices will buy their children good life free from burdens.
There is no perfection in anything but here both types of mothers are good because each of them always work for the betterment, support and good future of their children whether by working in the offices like doing a job or giving their time at home to provide good services to their children. So each oath is paved with the quiet bravery of the mothers.
More than the blood the mother has many faves of motherhood. A good mother is not always biological. Some mothers adopt children. Some step in. Some raise children of others. Some mothers also heal others with the mentorship and compassion which they never received. So these are also the mother because motherhood is not just biology. It is the devotion. It is the work of soul. It is the decision to show up. It is the spirit to love and keep going irrespective of the situations.
A good mother always works hard to make everyone comfortable and happy. Sometimes when the world is unkind and when she is told that she is not enough or not doing the right things then a good mother still rises. She still packs the lunches. She still finishes the shift and wipes the tears. Because in her heart she always carries the truth. A good mother dies not follow the rules but follows love.
I would like to invite @damithudaya, @vivigibelis, and @chant to participate in this contest of love Vs capability.
Being a mother is not always staying with kids. It is about watching her child grow up with love, safety, and pride. For that, she needs to earn. Good luck with the contest.
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Exactly I strongly agree with your point of view.
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My pleasure!
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Perfect entry. keep steeming!
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Thank you for the appreciation.
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It is such a a lovely way to put it. It's so true that a mother's love goes far beyond any superficial checklist. It's about the deep, unwavering love and care she gives her family, the way she understands and supports them, no matter the circumstances. It's a truly special bond. Good luck mate.
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Exactly a good other is not defined by a checklist but because of her emotions love and dedication.
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