"SLC-S24/W1 - Tangled Emotion | The Powerful Conversation".

Hello my steemian friends,

This is my participation in the contest” Steemit Challenge S24W1 | Powerful Debate - Tangled Emotions sitaraindaryas in Ladies Universe

I also want to invite here @aminasafdar @mehwish-almas and @suryati1

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Powerful Debate Tasks on Wife and Husband

To show this serious debate, I first have to show the characters and positions of the husband, wife and her, only then will the debate be truly enjoyable.

Rohan is busy with his usual work in his office. His assistant Promila is a 35 year old beautiful, married and cheerful lady who can win anyone's heart with her way of talking.

While working continuously in the office, it is normal for intimacy to develop between colleagues, but it starts to make other colleagues jealous. Some other colleagues in the office are tempted to get closer to Promila, as many colleagues think that Promila is a flirtatious woman who can easily impress. But on the contrary, Promila only jokes and shares her joys and sorrows with her closest boss Rohan.

Rohan, who is himself a handsome man of 40-42 years, and is dissatisfied with his wife's careless attitude, also gets satisfaction by sharing his personal and joyous things with Promila. But both Rohan and Promila are friends within the limits of their decency and dignity; there is no feeling of physical attraction or love between them. Today when Rohan and Promila were laughing while having an official meeting, suddenly Rohan's wife Ruby entered the office, and looking at Rohan she shouted loudly

"Do you come here to indulge in such debauchery?

Rohan and Promila were taken aback, Pramila got up and sat on her seat.

Rohan said very patiently, "how did you come to my office today suddenly?"

Ruby again spoke in a reckless manner,

"I came to see what fun you are having with your assistant in the office. Your colleagues have called me and told me everything."

Rohan again replied patiently,

""there is nothing like that, you are misunderstanding, she and I have only an official relationship. You go home, I will come and talk.""

Ruby got angry again,"" No, whatever will happen will happen in front of your girlfriend.""

Poor Promila was also dying of shame, Rohan was so shocked to see her in this condition. Frustrated, Rohan immediately left the office and his wife followed him back home.

1. In your opinion, who showed more emotional maturity during the conversation and why did you feel so? Was it honesty, self-control, empathy or something else?

Actually, this was a situation created due to misunderstanding, wife's suspicion and her carelessness, in which Rohan's colleagues, out of jealousy, incited his wife Ruby against the husband by telling her lies. I think Rohan showed maturity here, because he did not have any ill feelings for Promila, yet Promila had to face humiliation because of his wife. While both of them had to work together in the office in future as well. That is why Rohan did not let the situation deteriorate too much to prove his honesty right.

2. Do you believe that emotional cheating can cause as much or even more harm than physical cheating? Where do you think the real betrayal begins: in the heart or in the body?

I feel that no extramarital affair happens without any reason, one of the two parties is definitely guilty for this, and whenever there is an extramarital relationship with someone, it is natural to get emotionally attached to it, we can call it a betrayal because we are bound by our social bonds. But when a man or woman partner gets attracted to someone else due to indifference or bitter behavior or sourness in the relationship, then it cannot be called betrayal in my eyes. It is called compromise.

3. What are some subtle but powerful signs that indicate that the emotional distance between the partners is increasing? Can you recognize these red flags before it is too late?

When the husband and wife in any house do not give time to each other, stop understanding each other, and start hesitating to share their joys and sorrows with each other. Women start ignoring their husbands after having children, or rich women get busy with their socials. Poor women are careless about their physical care and choice of clothes. A man comes home from the grind of office/work and imagines his wife's smile, her loving gaze, her beauty. But in return he finds a woman with irritable, smelly clothes. Or rich men don't find their wives at home at all. These are all common reasons.

4. Can love really survive a deep betrayal? What do you really need to rebuild broken trust and reconnect?

Love, dedication, understanding, giving each other time can prevent many betrayals.

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5. If you were a marriage counselor, what advice would you give to couples going through heartbreak and healing? Speak from knowledge, experience or personal pain.

The main reason for distance between husband and wife, in most of the cases is the carelessness of the wife, her separation from her husband in sexual relations, and being too busy in household chores. Therefore, as a marriage counsellor, my advice to husband and wife is that whenever they get a chance, they should share their heart out with each other, give time to each other, husbands should fulfill the needs of their wives. And wives should also fulfill the needs of their men whether they feel like it or not.
From time to time, go to some secluded places and spend time, trust each other completely. Do not doubt small things.
In your life heaven will be created in this world, if you both do this. And I think that if husband and wife leave their ego aside and talk in case of a small misunderstanding and try to resolve it, then a big fight can be avoided.

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.

Sur-riti❤️