Hello friends!
It is nice coming back again to this week's debate. One thing we must know for sure is that marriage is a beautiful thing. There is no template in the world today that suggests the best way of handling this God-given union. It is unique and best handled by the belief system and personal demands of every individual.
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It is the basis for all societal goods or wrongs we see today. What we mold out of it simply suggests what builds the entire space we live in. It cannot be overemphasized, given the essential and significant role it plays in shaping the entire system in which humans dwell. The couples that constitute the decision-making of the home should be greatly applauded despite its shortcomings.
The term love can be expressed in various forms, and this should be understood in terms of its role among spouses. Love is an ingredient that helps spice up everyone in a relationship. A situation where everyone lives a conscious,s, free life without having to check limits and boundaries. Everything seems to be in place without hard push.
In love situations, everything seems to be normal despite how wrong they may be in real-life situations. Continuing in such a trend is likely to keep us in a delusional state, believing the current state of things is normal and every other event is the new normal or probably abnormal to do.
While we believe in the course of love and how bonding this may be when we still feel its impact, in most cases, it is lost due to human activities andbehaviorallpatternsns. In this case, it is never expected to be an all-time ingredient that keeps relationships in a healthy state.
A healthy relationship with only a basis on love may not be sustainable if there is no form of consciousness and intentionality to keep it going. We are only good and in a happy state when love is involved, but its sustainability isn't what can be guaranteed. However, loyalty and understanding are virtues we can not dispose of in our relationships.
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Everyone likes submissiveness and a space filled with understanding. This is one core ingredient that drives togetherness irrespective of the bonding status or level of love exhibited. It is a driver of all, given its potential to keep all and sundry in a stable relationship.
One of the best ways to win over people is to be loyal to them. For spouses, loyalty is one sure way of keeping the other person more attracted to you. A virtue that upholds and lives in the hearts of those who practice it. Understanding is a life wire that allows for coexistence and cohabitation. Can two walk together if they don't agree? The answer is no. Therefore, understanding brings an atmosphere of peace and love that supports longevity.
The truth be said, we cannot be over-dependent on what love could offer us and when we seem not to be getting this, we begin to rage. Other ingredients are great determinants. However, we cannot be our own enemies by living a pseudo-lifestyle. The loyalty and understanding they shared have kept them other than the lovey-dovey pattern we presumed to be supreme.
In relationships, we should build from friendship into relationships. When we have complications from what relationships could offer given a fractured love status, we can always major in our friendship. This is where loyalty and understanding are domineering.
Therefore. I will have no ill feelings about the misrepresentation of outsiders about my relationship position because I should have been operating from a relationship-to-friendship pathway. Sometimes, these are stimuli that help push and restore the so much talked-about lost emotions. In this case, the couples are motivated to gradually draw back those things that seem lost.
My summarized thoughts here are simple, people outside should not determine how long or short we've lost our emotions. Other fantastic ingredients can help position us for the better. Rather people outside there should rather be propellers towards adjusting ourselves as well as starting a new leave.
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Peace is priceless. Just like I said, loyalty and understanding bring much-anticipated peace. Going for what sets our hearts on fire is likely to come with some cold chillers or short-lived ones. This does not in any way suggest it is the ideal replacement for peace, as peace comes with a lot of longevity when properly applied.
The love we crave derives its potential strength from peace and any of it's exhibition without peace suggests incompleteness. In peace I stand as this brings about growth, absolute coordination, stronger bonding, and coexistence.
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