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in hive-161155 •  7 days ago 

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Have you been with a friend that will close down topics that he or she does not like, probably because it affects them and they do not want to talk about?
I hate this experience a lot.
And most times, they are eager to discuss issues that relate to you and when you want to pass ot down too like they do, they totally disagree with you.

They do it so casually like it is nothing.
They say it like, "let's close that chapter and move on to another issue". Onto the next Issue.
When I say remind them that i am not done discussing, they say they are done and they have nothing to say.

The amazing thing is that they expect me to raise the next Issue because they have nothing in mind to discuss. I mostly decline, making them understand I have no issue next to discuss.

Thank you for your time...

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Yes I have a friend like that although it's a bit different. I am asked many questions and if I sit down to seriously answer them one by one (especially by chat) there's no response for at least 6 weeks. After many years i learned to give up. I answer when it fits me and no longer count with a reply. It only comes if they are in need and want to ventilate or need advice badly. And of course, if I give it nothing is possible. LOL

True!
They only come around when they need something.
I think you handled yourself well, I take the same approach too.
That's the best way to handle such relationship.