My Blog post 2 || Journaling || What If It’s All Actually Simple ?

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Hello Everyone, how are you all? I hope everyone is happy and healthy. I am great too by the grace of God. So today I am back with another blog post. I hope you all read and like my post.

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We all have our own different lifestyles whether it be that we live alone or whether we live with our family. Everyone goes through life in a different way. In a small way or in a large way, I believe this affects the way we behave and the way our thoughts are shaped. It’s very important to understand the nuances of each person’s perception and attitude. So talking about myself, I have started to realise the difference in how I behave and think when I am staying alone vs when I’m staying around my family members. Sometimes I have the tendency of not being able to hear my self out. I kind of zone out and loose the connection with what I do and what I believe in. But I guess slowly slowly I am understanding how to not get overwhelmed with the fact that I am unable to be myself or whatever but rather focusing on creating that balance.

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A wise person once told me, if there is a problem in front of you, there are two ways to approach it. One is to focus on what you can control 2nd is to worry about something you can’t control. We always tend to stress about life’s miseries and harm ourselves more in that process; rather if we think in this way it would benefit us: if the situation / circumstances are not in my control then why worry about it? As it is you can’t do anything about it, be neutral and move on; but yes if you can do something about it, then instead of worrying about it, work on getting a solution to it and then things can be solved. We are all very well equipped with all the resources available and most of the times we are already aware about what will get us through the challenge that we are facing , but the problem is we take time to act on it.

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I have heard many people say this, Life is Simple yet we have such a difficult time navigating through it. Weird right? We often get lost in our own thoughts and emotions that we are unable to process things as they are. I guess at this moment it can truly be helpful to just breakdown step by step and move one step at a time; of course it’s not always so easy to do that but we can always give it a try. There are several ways that one can process things in life, I would say the key is to be at peace with one’s self with whatever we do.

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What I am trying to say is that I am in the process of being better at understanding the people (especially my family members) around me which earlier I used to not have the ability to. It’s given me a lot of motivation to retrospect and resolve so many issues. It’s an enlightening experience and also a reminder that all relationships require an effort, an effort to make things work, an effort to be happy, an effort to make everything go smoothly and most importantly it requires our time to be there for each other. A listening ear, a smile, a small gesture, a nod of approval anything which shows the other person that they are heard and that you are there no matter what.

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The present is what we can control, not the past nor the future. So the present is of utmost importance and we should learn to cherish it no matter what the circumstance is. Life will anyway happen, but we need to keep a check on how we decide to live it. 😇

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Thank you all for reading my post. I will soon be back with another journal entry. Till then bye and have a lovely week ahead. 👋. See you in my next post.