Am I superstitious

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Am I Superstitious? Maybe Just a Little 😅

Let me be honest with you when I first saw the topic of this prompt, I laughed. Not because it's funny, but because I had to sit down and actually think about my life choices. Am I superstitious? Do I believe that stepping over a broom can curse me? Or that whistling at night invites evil spirits? You know, growing up in Nigeria, especially in a traditional home, you hear all sorts of things. And you just obey sometimes not necessarily because you believe them, but because your mother’s eyes say, “Try me and see.”

So, to answer the first question: Yes, I do believe in some superstitions. But not all. And if I had to rate myself on a scale of 1 to 10? I'd say I’m a 4.5 yes, I know that sounds like I’m trying to be diplomatic, but hear me out.

There are things I naturally just avoid, not because I’ve personally experienced the consequences, but because it has been hammered into me since childhood. For example, I won’t sweep at night. I don’t open umbrellas indoors. And you won’t catch me sitting at the edge of a mortar (you know that one they say will stop you from getting married if you do? 😩).

But at the same time, I don’t let these beliefs run my life. I don't consult stars or read horoscopes before making decisions. I still cut my nails at night, and nothing tragic has happened so far. So maybe I just pick and choose what to believe. Is that hypocrisy? Possibly. But it’s also survival. 😂

Now onto the next question: Can being superstitious help control the luck of destiny? In my opinion? No. Destiny is deeper than all these “don’t do this, don’t do that” rules. If someone is meant to succeed, they’ll succeed whether or not they saw a black cat or broke a mirror. Superstitions, for the most part, are rooted in fear. They give us a false sense of control, like, “If I do this or avoid that, maybe my life will go smoothly.” But the truth is, life will do what it wants. You can avoid crossing a dead person’s shadow or walking between twins, and still miss a flight, fail an exam, or face heartbreak.

That said, I think superstitions can also reflect culture and wisdom in disguise. Take the classic one: “Don’t whistle at night.” It might have started because people used to go missing in the dark and elders wanted to keep kids indoors. Not necessarily that ghosts were whistling back. But once it was passed down, it became a scary story. So while I don’t think being superstitious gives you power over your destiny, I do believe that understanding where these ideas come from can give us insight into our people’s past.

Now let’s talk about that “Do not marry, do not embark, nor leave your home” superstition. First time I heard it, I was like, “Wait, so we should all just stay indoors and do nothing?” Apparently, it means certain days (especially Tuesdays or certain dates) are considered unlucky for starting something new, like a marriage, a journey, or even moving houses.

Well, I get the idea behind it. Maybe it's meant to warn us to think before making major life decisions. But in today’s world? That one doesn’t hold much water with me. If two people love each other and are ready to get married, should they postpone it just because the calendar says it’s not the “right” day? Nah. As long as there’s peace in their hearts and prayer has gone ahead of them, I say go for it. Life is already full of uncertainty. We don’t need to add more fear on top.

Lastly, let’s address the age-old question: Is it bad luck for the groom to see the bride before the wedding?

This one is interesting. I’ve heard so many versions of why it’s considered bad luck. Some say it’s to build suspense, others say it’s tied to ancient arranged marriages where the families didn’t want the groom to back out if he didn’t like the bride’s face. 🤭 Can you imagine?

Personally, I think it’s just tradition not necessarily superstition. In fact, I think it’s actually sweet when the couple gets to share a private moment before the ceremony, especially if it helps calm their nerves. So, no, I don’t believe it’s “bad luck.” I believe whatever works for the couple is what matters. If they want to pray together before the wedding or rehearse their first dance, why not? Love is already hard enough let people do what brings them joy.

At the end of the day, I think most superstitions come from a place of caution. Our ancestors didn’t have science to explain everything, so they created rules based on what they observed. And those rules became beliefs passed down from generation to generation. Some of them still make sense. Others just feel like spiritual red tape.

For me, I choose to respect tradition, but I don’t let it dictate my life. I believe in God, I believe in common sense, and I believe that my actions not some hidden force in the air are what shape my future. If something doesn't feel right in my spirit, I pause. But not every itch is a sign from the universe. Sometimes, it's just dry skin. 😅

So yeah am I superstitious? Maybe a little. But I think I’ve found my balance.

How about you? Are you the “don’t sweep at night” type, or you break coconuts without fear? Let’s talk.👇

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