SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments

Hello Steemit Family I hope you all are doing well and enjoy your life . Today I am writing my entry for Week 3 of the Steemit Ladie Club contest. The topic is very interesting

“Should the husband always say sorry first or Should both partners apologize depending on who is Wrong?”

I am not married yet but I want to share real story from my life that gave me deep Understanding of this topic.

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A Real Life Example from My Younger Sister Marriage

My younger sister got married some time ago and moved from Pakistan to Bulgaria. Her husband Hisham is a very kind respectful and understanding man. What make him special is that he is a reverted Muslim he accepted Islam by his own choice. Even though he is new to the religion and our culture he follow the values of Islam in such a beautiful way.

As her elder brother I was a little worried in the beginning. My younger sister was moving to foreign country far from home with a new lifestyle language and people. But Alhamdulillah now when I talk to her I feel peace in my heart. She sounds happy calm and love. She always says good thing about her husband.

A Line That Touched My Heart

One day I have a casual talk with my brother in law Hisham. We were talking about relationships and how arguments happen in married life. During the conversation he said something that really touched my heart

❝ A woman is always right. Even if she wrong I say sorry first because I love peace more than my ego. ❞

I was surprised. I smiled and asked “You really think that?”
He replied with a calm smile “Yes because ego can break relationship but love can fix anything.”

That moment stayed in my mind. I felt so much respect for him. Many people think saying sorry makes you weak but he showed me that real strength is in keeping your loved one happy even if you have to say sorry first.

What I Have Learned from Them

By observing their marriage I learned many life lessons. Of course they do have small arguments like any couple. But the way they handle it with understanding and love is inspiring. My sister once told me “Even when I’m upset he never lets the day end without making me smile.” This shows how important it is to keep the relationship stronger than any fight.

My Opinion

Now let me share my opinion on the main question:

Should the husband always say sorry first?

I think that both partners should say sorry when they are wrong. But if one of them is more mature they can take the first step even if its not their mistake just to make peace. Thats what love is about.

Sometimes the husband says sorry first and sometimes the wife. The most important thing is that both of them care more about love than ego.

A Message for All Couples

If you are married or planning to get married one day remember these things

💗 Don’t let ego win.
💗 Say sorry quickly even if its difficult.
💗 Respect and care for each other more than being “right.”
💗 A strong relationship needs forgiveness not arguments.

I truly pray that everyone finds a life partner who loves them like my brother in law loves my younger sister. A person who knows that peace is more important than pride.

I would love to invite:

@whalewinners @muhammad-ahmad and @neelofar to participate in this wonderful contest.

Thank you so much for reading my post.

All the images I took from my sister's Instagram I can't share the link here because it's a private account.