Contest| The Power of Small Actions

Greetings my dear friends of Steemit and Hindwhale Community

SI

Eight years ago on a trip to Anadam Nicobar I had a heart attack in the Havlock Island. It was a life changing day for me.

There's a saying that if you don't sacrifice for what you want what you want becomes the sacrifice I wanted happiness inner peace but instead of fighting for these things I sacrifice them. I sacrificed myself in an endless effort to please everyone and at the same time gave away any chance for happiness and peace. That moment was my wakeup call I saw that I was the common denominator in all my relationships and I realized I couldn't keep living like this. I didn't want to keep living like this in order to find the happiness and peace that I wanted. I had to reinvent myself that's what this simple idea is.

Nothing needs to be wrong for you to want something better in your life. I'm sharing things I've done over the last 8 years and that worked for me take what resonates with you and leave the rest.

Then just 2 years later actually getting fired from my job so that's a culmination of 8 years of really working on myself and Diving deep and doing what I can to master my life and make myself a better version of myself.

Every day the first one is to Value yourself learn to Value yourself get curious about who you are and get curious about what stories are you still telling yourself and where did those stories come from stories that don't serve you that you're just caring because maybe they were told to you when you were young another thing that's really important to change your life is to change your self talk. this is vital.

In changing how you see yourself and along with that goes to learning about your subconscious mind understand that. You can rewire it. It can change you, can teach yourself new behaviors and new beliefs and new powerful self talk instead of the negative self talk that maybe you grew up with or experienced in an unhealthy relationship along with that is learning the power of the words 'I am' whatever follows the words. I am what you believe yourself to be so if you say I am lazy I am not confident I'm not smart I'm not motivated I'm not you fill in the blank those negative things you are telling your subconscious mind that that's what you believe yourself to be and your subconscious mind can only do what you tell it. It does what you tell it is most important so the words that you repeat to yourself are what the subconscious mind believes is important.

We have to have that respect and acceptance and love for ourselves first before we really can receive it from someone else. So many times we think that someone else isn't respecting me but am I respecting me.

Before I conclude I would like to invite three fellow Steemians to participate in the contest
@zulbahri
@eveetim
@georgitsachev

Thank you for reading my post.